In case this Valentine's day found you lonesome, why not try checking out these two current advice guides for gays and lesbians on finding true love:   



Boyfriend 101:  A Gay Guy's Guide to Dating, Romance, and Finding True Loveby Jim Sullivan, provides light-hearted and very practical advice on gay relationships. For the truly relationship-challenged, he starts at the very beginning by defining "What is a date?"    





D. Merilee Clunis and G. Dorsey Green's Lesbian couples : a guide to creating healthy relationships, takes a more serious look at overcoming the challenges of building lasting relationships given the homophobia still at play in American society. Their approach focusses on cultivating intimacy, paying special attention to communication and handling differences in the relationship.